Quality & Quantity

[Slashie]

i'm just enjoying the irony

[dollyj]

I think if someone is going around giving red marks, they must be jealous of the other person. Maybe he/she is just a very unhappy person. Can't have to many freinds if they treat others this way!!! Regarding grandkids.... I have 13, and I wouln't trade a single one!!! Keep telling my son he needs to get me off of the unlucky no. and have another!! I have 4 children and 3 of them have four, my son wants more but school and no money,has played a big part in their decision. Joyce

[Simpleuser2000]

No I am sure it was to the type of post. there are some who feel that we should post one or two long posts and not so many short posts. And I am sure that she is refering to this, not the number of grandchildred, because I recieved the same red mark on the thread - did I deserve this red mark.
so I have 2, I did not even know about this until they opened the list to see who had given rep points.

The person that gave me the quantity verse quality bad rep posts one liners quite often. More than likely she is the same person that gave to all of us. She is more than likely a sad unhappy person.

[brendaj]

Quanity, Quality. Do they have to be on opposite sides of the spectrum. I have known families with lots of children who where able to give them a good upbringing. I have also see people who are well off with the 1-2 child limit who should have had the children taken away. Each situation is different and is not ours to judge.
Onw of my (many) resolutions this year is to think before I speak. In the long run, my opinion means. I do not want to hurt anyone with my words. I have a lot of strong opinions, but I am trying to remember, It is not my place to judge others.
Enjoy your children, grand children how ever many you have. Who knows where the next world leader, great scientist / healer or hero may come from.
As for the person leaving the red marks and hurtful comments, I hope things improve for her. Who knows what is going on in her life?
Have a great day all.
Brenda in MI

[Simpleuser2000]

i'm just enjoying the irony

HEHEHEHEHE Right with ya!

[debi]

i have two sons and 5 1/2 grandkids... last one due on march 30. i begged and begged for another grandchild !!! lol...

i feel sorry for the woman who gave the bad rep. she really doesn't know what she is missing... each of my grandchildren are special... the one i am with will tell me "i'm the favorite". but that one knows they all say that! and to me, they are the favorite... i have favorite things about each of them.. but love them all the same.

Ashley is a senior in high school, and taking 5 college classes...she says psychology is the hardest.
Sebastian is a junior and loves to play football, baseball, basketball, etc and is good at them all
Jaycie is a junior and is a fabulous cook... and loves to sew with me
Andrea is in 8th grade and so athletic she makes me jealous because i could never do any of the things she can make her body do
Bryant is in 4th, and even though he likes sports, he really likes to talk even more. his stories are wonderful..
and Zoe.. the not yet 6th grandchild... we can't wait until she gets here... it's so exciting...
each of these people are a blessing, and i praise God for giving them to us...

so please, hug those 9 grandkids...and forget that one negative woman. she obviously doesn't have what we have... and if i get a negative rep... oh, well, i only have 1 anyway.. lol...

debi